Ensure that you are running Neo4j server 3.5.x or 4.x, and have installed at least version 3.5.0.9 or 4.0.0.4 of the APOC library respectively.

The first step is to ensure the JAR file has been installed on Tableau Desktop as the data source must be published from Desktop to Server. Install the plugin by dropping the JDBC JAR file in to the appropriate driver directory depending on the platform:

Using Tableau’s "Other JDBC Connection" option, you need to create a datasource connected to a Neo4j instance using the appropriate JDBC connection string. For example:

Using the Tableau Desktop menu, select Server → Sign In, and you will be presented with the following dialog:

Once you choose a URL, you will be prompted to login to the Tableau server at that URL:

At this point you can verify you are actually logged in to the Tableau server:

Once connected, you must publish the datasource to the server. On the Tableau Desktop menu, select Server → Publish Data Source and fill out the form. Notably some of these fields (like "Project") refer to remote resources on the server. The screen should look something like this:

Connect to the Tableau Server URL in a web browser, explore the appropriate project, and ensure that that datasource is available. You should see something similar to this:

Additionally you can check you can actually query for data at this point: